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IT'S NOT A CUSTODY BATTLE - IT'S WAR
A high conflict divorce defies all imagination.
Learn to navigate post-separation abuse and the family court system with specialized support from an experienced advocate who has been on the front lines.
Personalized, One-on-One High Conflict Divorce Coaching Anywhere in the U.S.
Survive your divorce, protect your family
You want to keep things amicable and act in your children's best interest. But you're up against a high conflict personality type who is out to serve only their own. And they're preparing for war.
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If you're divorcing a high conflict individual or are involved in ongoing custody disputes, the typical, well-meaning advice from loved ones and many lawyers does not apply. Because our family court system is woefully ill-equipped to see through the cunning charm and tactics of an individual with manipulative and exploitative personality traits.
Theirs is a self-serving agenda that includes devaluing, intimidation, triangulation and chronic blaming. The list of coercive behaviors and abuses runs long - emotional, psychological, physical, financial, and now, legal. And they're incredibly skilled at controlling the narrative. No matter the tactic, the end goal is clear: To maintain power and control after the relationship ends through a campaign of post-separation abuse.
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But there is hope - because you've got what they don't. Authenticity. Compassion. The capacity for unconditional love. And a high conflict divorce and custody coach to help you act, not react.
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Don't go through this devastating separation and divorce process alone. Whether you're going through a high conflict divorce, planning your way out, or are struggling with how to co-parent with your hostile, irrational ex, arm yourself with proven strategies and empathetic support from a skilled Certified High Conflict Divorce Coach.
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It's time to stop walking on eggshells and start stomping on them.
"This is going to be a bloodbath."
Actual quote from a high conflict parent upon learning about the divorce
your secret weapon in a high conflict divorce
Stomping On Eggshells is a team of certified high conflict divorce coaches and custody advocates who have walked in your shoes and are intensely driven to end the emotional and financial devastation involved in high conflict divorce and custody disputes, and post-separation abuse.
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Every coach has been trained through the High Conflict Divorce Certification Program (HCDCP). Created by family court advocate, Tina Swithin of One Mom's Battle, it is the nation's first and only coaching program specializing in high conflict divorce and custody cases involving narcissistic individuals.
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We're guided by our intense desire to place the best interest of children above individual parental interests and to advocate for the healthy, protective parent without bias toward gender.
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Our coaches are personally and professionally skilled to guide you through your journey across 3 pivotal areas of focus that can make or break a custody case. Additionally, we'll work with you to adopt an empowered mindset and help you see your situation in a radically new light.
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Stomping On Eggshells coaches are trained to offer strategy, guidance and support nationwide. Click below to learn more about our certified high conflict divorce coaches and our revolutionary approach.
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OUR APPROACH TO HIGH CONFLICT DIVORCE & CUSTODY
Divorcing a narcissist and co-parenting with an individual with traits of one or multiple Cluster B personality disorders is neither quick, amicable or permanent, which is why having a high conflict divorce coach on your team is vital for your case, finances and mental fortitude.
When you work with a Stomping On Eggshells certified high conflict divorce coach, you gain a strategic ally who can hold your hand through every step of your divorce, custody and/or co-parenting process. We are divorce coaches who have been there. We get it. We see you and we validate you. As a result, we are equipped to help you avoid the pitfalls—the tricks, traps and weapons that a person with narcissistic traits keeps at their disposal, such as gaslighting, crazy-making and smear campaigns.
Stomping On Eggshells is a unique divorce coach experience, because every certified high conflict divorce coach is trained to offer strategy, guidance and support across 3 key areas of high conflict situations... the 3 LIEs of High Conflict Divorce and Post-Separation Abuse(TM):
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L=legal - Discover how to think strategically to move forward while avoiding pitfalls, and how to stay organized and prepared through documentation.
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I=interpersonal - Find out how to foster a strong parent-child relationship, support their emotional wellbeing and resilience, and help shield them from the effects of high conflict divorce.
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E=emotional - Learn strategies for how how to co-parent and communicate with your ex without losing your mind, how to mentally prepare for court hearings and meetings, and how to keep your resilience tank full.
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Our certified high conflict divorce coaches offer free 30-minute phone consultations to new clients and offer two flexible coaching options to serve your needs. Schedule a Single Strategy Session with your divorce coach just when you need it—or select a 3-Session Coaching Plan for ongoing strategy and support.
Whether you’re divorcing a narcissist and want to add a divorce coach to your legal team—or you’re frustrated trying to co-parent with one and don’t know what to do, email us or submit a form to see how you can benefit from working with a certified high conflict divorce coach.
WHAT CLIENTS SAY
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your crusade. You are changing lives for the better.
K., Middlesex County, MA
Thank you so much! Claudia, you are a gifted coach!
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-S., Berkshire County, MA
While I'm still in the middle of this ugly war, I won this battle. I am so glad I found you.
-J., Worcester County, MA
My husband and I are so grateful [our daughter] has become a client.
The support and suggestions you have already shared with her have been so helpful. I believe in the short time [she] has worked with you, she seems a little stronger and a lot less emotional.
M, Worcester County, MA
Thanks so much, I've really enjoyed speaking with you and appreciated all your help and resources immensely. It's great to have someone to speak with about this.
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-S., Clackamas County, OR
At the end of the session I felt incredibly happy. It has been a wonderful opportunity, especially since I did not know that such a service existed.
-G., Cook County, IL